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My Mom Died One Year Ago Today,
02/24/08
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Please accept a BIG hug across the computer. I lost my mom 4 years ago February 20. It still stinks, and I still miss her everyday. She had lung cancer, for about 6 months, she never told us girls and we had figured something was up, but she kept saying lukemia. She didn't want to be treated differently. Bless her. We always thought she'd come home from the hospital. It's funny, it was a long five days in that hospital, but seems those five days were way too short now. We keep thinking she didn't suffer much, however, dragging around an oxygen tank for about two months couldn't have been too fun either. My husband, the sweet man he is, and I, and the three dogs and cat, moved in with dad five months later. It has been a great pleasure, and also a bit sad,to get to see all the things that remind me of mom. I would not have it any other way. In fact, in her memory, I got a tatoo just about two weeks ago. I will always carry her memory in my heart and all the good things and wisdom she taught me. It is much easier to talk about mom and what she did and what she would say and don't ever stop thinking that way about your mom. Seriously. Let people look at you when you say "mom would have thought that was crazy" or what have you. That has been one of my saving graces, is talking like she still is here, which I believe, in all my heart, she is "around" and knows what is going on. Once again, HUGS to you and hang in there. Happy memories ever fade, revisit them often (one of my favorite sayings)